Wednesday, September 1, 2010

The Average Girl Gives Online Dating Another Try

This isn't my first venture down this road of online dating, but this time I'm hoping to explore more of the scenery and see what else is out there. I first tried online dating and met one guy that I dated briefly...several times... I gave it another try a year ago and went on 3 dates in one week that all turned out to be total duds. This time I'm hoping for something a step better than the last 2 trys!

I'm convinced there are only 3 types of guys out there on these sites and it's a tough job sorting through them all! I would wager that about 75% of the men are only looking for a quicky, 14% are crazies and 1% is actually one of the good guys! I've been propositioned so many times now that I half wonder if I just shouldn't start my own phone-sex line or become a professional sexter. With the number of guys out there looking for sex, I really might make some good money!

I'm going to tackle this self imposed challenge head on! So far, I've sent 23 messages to men on one site in the past week. Of those 23, I've gotten only three responses. That percentage isn't so good... I have gotten several IMs from guys that either wanted a "fun time" or were total crazies. The craziest was the guy that offered to be my personal slave! I very quickly scrambled to find the block button!

So lets see where this goes. I'll keep sending messages, IMing and trying new free sites and see if anything comes of it.

If you have any suggestions of good sites to try, please let me know. But be forewarned, don't try sending me to a site that is not good quality or for people only looking for "activity partners;" I want quality sites that something serious actually might be possible!

What happened to the day when men were men and women were swept off their feet? Have we really fallen so far that we have to resort to sifting through post after post, photo after photo, profile after profile to find the few non-sex addicts or totally crazies that are out there? The answer...apparently so...sad...